Friendship: A Beautiful Bond

                   

                         Friendship : A Beautiful Bond

         My own blog is an ideal place to express my own thoughts and opinions about anything I wish. So today I would like to share my thoughts and feelings about a divine bond of friendship. I value Friendship very much in my life. Sometimes more than anything else. For me, It is the second most beautiful bond after the mother & child bond. The love and care these two relations share are absolutely unconditional. In my opinion, True friendship is very deep and sensitive feeling that touches your heart and soul. 
        
         We meet hundreds and thousands of people in life. Many of them get attached to us. Some of them get closer. We call them "FRIENDS". Though we have many good friends, among them there are always couple of very special friends whom we consider as Best Friends.. Rather I would like to call them 'Soul Friends'. They become our lifelong buddies. 

       Everybody must find his or her Soul Friends in life sooner or later. Best friends definitely changes ones life. One can't exactly define the word 'Best friend' but only can feel it by heart.The moment you realise that certain person has become inseparable part of your life, you wonder that till that moment you were lonely inside, even though you had many so called friends. True Friendship is beyond the boundaries of age, gender or different natures.

      It's really an awesome feeling knowing that you have these amazing best friends with you. Not necessarily they have to be nearby you all the time. Distance of miles doesn't affect the bond of True friendship. In fact distance strengthens this bond. Because more you miss them, more you value them and when you meet them after long gaps,you get closer.

      

        True friends play every possible role in your life just like family. They love and care and also scold like mother and father. They back you up in troubled times as well as they fight with you like brother or sister. They complete you like partners. Even when they are sad, they seek your shoulder to cry on just like a child. 'Family may not take place of friends but Best friends can always become a family.'  

       

         Best Friend is always a person with whom you can share any damn thing in world, even the things that  you can't tell to family. Very openly and without any hesitation. Best friends share their joys as well as problems and sadness with each other. They don't consult Watch & Wallet, when its about their most beloved friend. Best friends don't need words to understand your thoughts and feelings. Expressions, silence, tone of voice speak instead. They just know in their heart  what their friend exactly need at different times, in different moods.

 

        

         True friends always wish happiness for each other. They love and care for each other unconditionally and without expecting anything in return. You Fight for them, you protect them. You find happiness in their joys and achievements and their pain brings tears to your eyes. If they are sad or hurt, you yourself spend restless days and sleepless nights, though you are far away from them, Because you can feel their pain. You just wish to be with them and ease their pain by any means possibles.
        

       But still, when there is love and care, there come fights & misunderstandings. Close friends too fight, get mad at each other, swear of not talking until other one talks first. But then even if you are angry with your dearest friend, you can't stay mad at them more than few hours. You or them eventually end up in calling or texting each other and saying sorry and laughing like nothing has happened ever. Sometimes you envy their other best friend for being their buddy more than you and little later, you realise how silly and funny your feeling of jealousy is, which is coming out of your unknowing possessiveness about them.

        Friendship is  not just about hanging around with your friends all the time or partying and drinking hard with them. True Friendship is all about understanding feelings of your friends and holding their hand in every good or bad situation and being there for them no matter what. I dream of such a wonderful and loving bond of friendship and soul friends.
           
      True Friendship is an Amazing thing, worth living for...!!!